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Pamela went into real estate to help people make their dreams come true. She gets to know each of her clients personally and works for them to ensure that their goals and wishes are met. It's Pamela's goal that each client has a positive homebuying and selling experience along the way. Pamela takes care of the details so her clients can focus on the big picture and their busy lives. With Pamela, you get more than a real estate agent, you get an advocate, a marketing expert, a home stager and a home designer all in one.
Transaction History
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Neighborhoods Pamela Has the Most Experience In
Pamela's Listings and Deals
Pamela's Active Listings
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$224,900
- 1 Bed
- 1 Bath
- 928 Sq Ft
- 460 Heritage Village
- Unit A
- Southbury, CT
Step into this beautiful Carriage House model in the desirable Heritage Village community. This lovely light-filled end-unit is move-in ready, featuring a brand-new (2024) Heat Pump and Hot Water Tank. The open concept Living Room/Dining Room with fireplace and sliders to deck is perfect for everyday living and entertainment. This condo is set in a picturesque, sprawling resort style complex
Pamela Dostilio Coldwell Banker Realty
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$399,900
- 4 Beds
- 3.5 Baths
- 2,941 Sq Ft
- 94 Candee Hill Rd
- Watertown, CT
Experience the warmth and charm of this beautifully maintained 4 Bed/3 Bath Cape Cod-style home situated on a private and level property in the desirable Watertown community. You will immediately feel at home when you enter this warm and inviting cape. Enjoy entertaining in your beautifully updated eat-in kitchen with an open line to the cozy living room and easy access to the nicely sized dining
Pamela Dostilio Coldwell Banker Realty
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$324,900
- 2 Beds
- 1.5 Baths
- 1,200 Sq Ft
- 27 Crows Nest Ln
- Unit 5N
- Danbury, CT
Discover a fresh start in this beautifully professionally painted ranch-style home at Birchwood Condominiums. With its open floorplan, large bedrooms, and warm interior, this 2BR/1.5BA upper-level unit is ready for you to move right in! Enjoy the cozy fireplace, dedicated dining room, and bright kitchen with granite countertops, white cabinets and a pantry. This home features 2 generously sized
Pamela Dostilio Coldwell Banker Realty
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$989,900
- 4 Beds
- 2.5 Baths
- 5,116 Sq Ft
- 4 Old Purdy Station Rd
- Newtown, CT
Explore the ultimate in luxury living in this exceptional 4-bedroom Colonial, showcasing over 5,000 sq ft of sophisticated living space in a prime neighborhood. As you enter, you'll be greeted by the dramatic 2-story foyer, 9 ft ceilings, and gorgeous hardwood floors. A stylish formal dining room with 10'ft ceiling provides generous space for large gatherings. The gourmet kitchen is a chef's
Pamela Dostilio Coldwell Banker Realty
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$11,250 per month
- 4 Beds
- 3.5 Baths
- 5,224 Sq Ft
- 14 Magellan Ln
- Easton, CT
Live The Luxury Life in this magnificent 5,224 square foot colonial residence nestled in a secluded cul-de-sac within the sought-after Easton neighborhood. A fantastic opportunity awaits to lease this remarkable property boasting a spacious bluestone patio, an outdoor theater screen, a fire pit, a built-in propane grill, outdoor kitchen with granite countertops, and a heated gunite pool/spa
Pamela Dostilio Coldwell Banker Realty
Other Experience
Pamela's Reviews
3/8/25Leslie Barrett
Google Review
Pam was great. Her pictures are excellent of my house. She really did a great job in selling . Quite a few open houses and all in all I would refer her to anybody that is trying to sell their home.
1/7/25Kathy Feola
Google Review
I highly recommend Pam D'Ostilio to anyone who needs a realtor. She was wonderful to work with and did everything she could to make the sale of mom's home go smoothly for us.
12/2/24Deborah Casey
Google Review
Working with Pam was so easy in such a complex process. The marketing was first rate and our home sold within a week of listing. Highly recommend.
12/2/24Genevieve Jordan
Google Review
Pam was the best part of our home-buying experience! As first-time buyers, we had so many questions and stresses, but she was always there to help. She made the process so much easier, and we couldnāt have done it without her. I highly recommend her to anyone!
11/13/24Katie Burke
Google Review
Pam is the big three: professional, persistent, and personal. She approached our home buying process with care and focus; she listens to her clients and fiercely protects their best interest. Buying and selling homes can be one of the most stressful events in a persons life. My husband and I felt like Pam was truly our teammate every step of the way.
She knows homes, and she knows value. Having Pam as our agent was instrumental in helping us secure the home of dreams, even in this tough market! She is the BEST!
11/12/24Andy Osowski
Google Review
Pam is the ultimate real estate professional. She handled our complicated purchase and closing in a gracious, patient and informative manner.
We would not hesitate to recommend her to anyone looking for a very dedicated and responsible realtor.
11/11/24Thomas Licamele
Google Review
Pam is a true professional and covered every detail through our home purchase - I would recommend Pam to anyone looking to buy or sell their home!
10/30/24Matt Franks
Google Review
We are recent new home owners in Southbury, CT and we canāt say enough amazing things about our experience! We were recommended to use Pamela Dostilio at Coldwell Banker Realty for our home buying process and itās easy to think that without her knowledge and expertise we wouldnāt be in our new home! Pam guided us through each step of the process. She gave us reliable advice, information, and resources to make the experience easy. We can confidently recommend anyone in the CT area looking to buy or sell their home to use Pam!
10/20/24Dina Schmude
Google Review
Pam did an amazing job and was so great to work with. As many times as I went through this process I was very nervous. Buying and selling is not always easy. Our house was listed quickly and the pictures were amazing. An open house happened right away and was received fantastically. Pam kept in constant touch and I never had to wonder what was happening. She didnāt just care about selling the property for us, but also cared about us and made sure we were aware of everything. The marketing of our house was superior and the materials I will keep as a treasure forever. I would recommend Pam anytime, she is truly one of a kind.
10/1/24harvey ferdschneider
Google Review
Iām happy to recommend Pam to anyone looking for a real estate agent. She handled the sale of a condo for me and was an absolute gem to work with! Aside from her professionalism and knowledge, she listened to me, understood my needs for a quick turnaround and set to work. In addition to arranging the necessary photography, she jumped in 100% to assist myself and my partner in getting the condo in good order with cleaning and painting. She is super motivated and results driven to get her client a great outcomeā¦.you could not find a better person to have working on your behalf. A+, 5 stars and 10s across the board!
9/27/24David Dube
Google Review
9/5/24Anne Gill
Google Review
Pam was so awesome to work with for the sale of my condo. She was very thorough in preparing for the open house and showings. Pam has an exceptional personality which draws people to her. She is friendly, truthful and always available to provide information on the status of the sale. I will highly recommend her to my friends and family.
9/4/24chai lei
Google Review
Great experience from beginning to end. Pam went beyond the call of duty to make this experience easy, with great attention to detail. Condo was rented within a week.
9/3/24Clementina Abba
Google Review
Pam was awesome, I was happy to have worked with her to rent my condo. She was knowledgeable, resourceful, responsive and flexible. She looked out for my best interest when making recommendations. I would recommend her to anyone looking to rent, sell or buy a home.
8/18/24Chelsea LaManna
Google Review
Pam is the best real estate agent out there, and itās because she legitimately loves it. You can tell how passionate she is every time you speak to her. We were fortunate enough to work with Pam in buying a house, and I cannot express how critical Pam was to our buying process. We had recently parted ways with another realtor, and during the time we werenāt represented we met Pam at an open house for a property she was selling. Fast forward a few weeks, we saw a house we loved, and called Pam up out of the blue asking if she would represent us. It was a Sunday and she didnāt hesitate to help us put an offer in, a great offer in (she gave us a lot of guidance and support) that same day. She continued to make everything so easy for us as she expertly navigated tricky waters with the sellers. She always advocated for us, and never failed to keep us updated. That was big for us, she would call or text all the time for big or small updates, and that was very reassuring as we went through the process. She also had recommendations for a team of experts (lawyer, inspector, etc.). Pam knows her stuff, she loves her clients, and we are so glad to have worked with her. 10/10. 5 stars. Iād give more stars if I could. Weād work with Pam again and suggest you do the same. Thank you Pam!
7/1/24Pat Briscoe
Google Review
It was a pleasure to work with Pam. She appreciated the home and was excited to represent us. Most of all she is a hard worker with a can do attitude.
7/1/24Maryanne Cullinan
Google Review
Pam is the perfect choice to help you sell your home! She is knowledgeable, hardworking and a pleasure to work with. Pam goes above and beyond to help her clients present their homes for the best possible outcome.
Thank you Pam for a great experience!
6/24/24Robert Schroeder
Google Review
Five stars for Pamela! She helped stage our home and looked after every detail with open houses and private offers, selling our home in record time! She is a full service agent! The photos of our home were amazing and played a huge part in our success. Iāll just say it straightā¦she was responsible for getting our home sold and allowed us to make a record move to our new location. See saw after all the kinks in the process. She is an agent that goes that extra mile for her clients. Thumbs up to Pamela!
4/25/24Matthew Crane
Google Review
Pam goes above and beyond with her properties and for her clients! Highly recommended
4/12/24rebecca corkery
Google Review
3/1/24Chris LaSalle
Google Review
Pam was excellent, very diligent and caring to a tee. I highly recommend her services to buy and sell any home. She move through with th whole process very quickly and my home sold in a very short time with excellent results.
2/21/24Melissa Brennan
Google Review
Pamela was very friendly and professional. We had bought and sold a home with her. It was a breeze because Pam took care of everything for us. If youāre looking to buy or sell then Pam can do the job and make it easy!
12/16/23Karolina Block
Google Review
I am so glad I found Pam as I searched for a realtor. She responded almost immediately to my online inquiry. I really liked my initial phone conversation with her. She was friendly and brought a sense of calmness into one of the most stressful life situations. I met Pam in person just a few days later. Pam helped me not only through the selling process, but she also came and helped me pack. She secured help so I could get small repairs and fixes done around the house. She truly provides a full service and goes above and beyond assisting her clients. Her friendly demeanor, her kind heart, and her dedication to clients' satisfaction shines through and through.
12/16/23Social Worker
Google Review
Pam is an amazing person, woman and real estate agent. She really cares about people and goes the extra mile to help her clients find their special home. Donāt worry, it doesnāt matter to her if youāre looking to rent or buy. Ask for Pam by name and youāll see what I mean. And no, weāre not related. So, I highly recommend Pamela Dostilio. Cyndy
11/21/23James Browne
Google Review
Pam did a great job for us during the buying and selling process as we moved to a new location. Her communiication skills are perfect, and her list of professional, reliable, contacts is extensive. Pam is a professional in every way, and she is the Agent you want if buying or se
lling.
9/30/23Michelle Goudsmith
Google Review
No words can describe how much Pam goes āover and aboveā to ensure every process from listing your home, preparing your home for showings and all the steps till after closing. Pamās friendly, kind, professional and seasoned!!
9/20/23Neil Callaghan
Google Review
Great agent & great person! We selected Pam after reviewing online information about her, and meeting her in person. She has extensive marketing and tech skills, along with her inherent real estate skills. She is a professional in every sense of the word, very detail oriented, and was on top of everything throughout the process and constantly in communication with us on all details and scenarios. We trusted her completely, as her integrity and honesty is obvious. Most importantly, she is a warm and compassionate person. We would highly recommend Pam to represent you in the sale of your home.
6/3/23Ra K
Google Review
We had the pleasure of working with Pam as our real estate agent to find a dream home. We started working with Pam in October of 2021. She is extremely knowledgeable, attentive, polite, patient and professional. One thing I admired about Pam was that no matter what time of the day or night we reached out to her, she was available immediately to respond and help. That had consistently stayed the same for the whole time we worked with her. We just closed on our house on the 1st and are very happy with the home she found us. I can say with certainty that we would not have been able to find our home without Pamās assistance as our agent. Thanks for always having a positive attitude and a great work ethic.
5/1/23Maryanne Rose
Google Review
If you want to feel like someone is in your corner and committed to finding the right home for you look no further! Knowing Pam for years I can tell you for certain that she will do her best to find your dream house Sheās loyal and goes the extra mile every time!
4/19/23Jeffrey Platt
Google Review
Pam is amazing! I have never seen a real estate person do so much to help!
3/14/23Wayne Defino
Google Review
As I home inspector I have worked with her and her buyers many times. I work with many realtors but few are dedicated to their clients as Pam is. She goes all in for her clients and spend many hours either hunting down homes for her buyers or getting home ready for her listing clients. She is not afraid to get her hands dirty for her listing and even went in and painted the entire interiors so it looked nice for the future buyers.
I recommend Pam for any and all your real estate needs
1/24/23krishna patel
Google Review
Hello Pam,
From the bottom of our heart, thank you for all the hard work you put in for us over these past few months and we appreciate all your help in selling our home. Your marketing strategies, negotiation skills, and attention to detail made the process easy and lucrative for us, and we couldnāt be happier we chose you to list our property. We appreciate your expertise, wisdom, and guidance along the way, and we canāt wait to refer you to friends and family in the future. Weāre so grateful for the effort you put in to keep us informed and confident while navigating this major milestone. Thank you again Pam for all youāve done for us. Weāll never forget it!
12/19/22Kurt Winkelman
Google Review
To put it simply... Pam is fantastic!
If I could give her 6 stars I would.
I was overwhelmed by and dreading the process of renting my property and had been putting it off for some time. The phone calls, the vetting of potential tenants, the risky market with Covid, I just couldn't imagine handling all of that.
All of that changed after I chose Pam as my listing agent. She stepped in and stepped up and took care of everything. I could not be happier with how Pam handled, and guided me through, every step of the process. She went above and beyond for me and I am sure that she will do the same for you.
If you are looking for a realtor, I highly recommend Pam.
Thank you Pam!
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Kurt
11/7/22Tyler LaChioma
Google Review
9/23/22David Monroy
Google Review
Ms Pam was dedicated every minute to help us find the right house, i would def. recommend Ms Pam to anyone i cone across.
Thank you for helping fullfil our American dream...
7/27/22chrystal7479
Google Review
Pam is a top-notch full-service realtor. She is amazing to work with and went above and beyond to sell my property. I followed her advice and within hours of listing my property, we had offers rolling in that were above not only the listing price but above my target price! I ended up accepting an offer just a few days after listing that was 12% above the listing price. Pam hires expert photographers and has exceptional interpersonal and marketing skills. Thank you for all of your hard work and dedication! I will be recommending her to anyone who needs a realtor in the future!
7/9/22Darrin Amendola
Google Review
Exceeded all expectations and more
6/23/22David Shufrin
Google Review
Pamela was very easy to work with and knowledgeable. She was also extremely responsive, which I really appreciated given the state of the market right now. I would recommend her to anyone who asked.
5/26/22Lucia Kushnir
Google Review
Pam is absolutely wonderful to work with. Itās like having a friend on the āinsideā that is working for you. She really cares about her clients, is knowledgeable and friendly. A realtor you can trust!
5/26/22Julie Annunziato
Google Review
I have had the privilege of working with Pam Dostilio on multiple occasions. Pam is a dedicated and hard-working person. Working with her has been a pleasure. She is dependable, reliable, courteous, respectful and has a fabulous personality as well. I would highly recommend her for anyone who is looking for a realtor who will work very hard for them.
5/15/22Michael Licamele
Google Review
Thanks Pam!!! You went above and beyond for us on this transaction. After we found the property we wanted to purchase but had just gone under contract with someone else, we asked you to stay connected with the listing agent on the chance that it might become available again. You did that and it became available and we were able to purchase the property. It was an absolute pleasure to work with you. Five stars plus!
5/6/22Angela Nightingale
Google Review
I found Pam to be extremely knowledgeable, thoughtful and accommodating. You definitely know she cares about every step you go through in your home buying process. She goes above and beyond!
5/6/22Chris Spodnick
Google Review
Highly Recommend Pam, for all your Realty needs.
5/5/22J. Drew Smith
Google Review
Pam helped us sell our house quickly and easily, even helping check in on everything while we were out of town. Great experience!
4/16/22CT Water Pump (CT Water Pump)
Google Review
We have worked with Pamela on numerous home sales. She is always very kind and understanding, you can tell she really cares about her clients. It's always a pleasure to see her at yet another house she will turn into a home for someone. Thanks for being awesome!!
4/16/22Ricky Rodriguez
Google Review
4/16/22Rose Ciardiello
Google Review
Pamela is a responsive full time realtor. She has built an impressive business. As a realtor myself, I have referred clients to Pamela who are looking to buy in her area. I would highly recommend her to anyone looking to buy or sell.
4/13/22Susan Harrington
Google Review
Pamela is an absolutely amazing realtor! She is incredibly knowledgeable, professional, and responsive. Pam is so friendly and really funny, too, which definitely helps tame the stress of home buying and selling! I would absolutely call her first when I need a realtor.
3/27/22William J. Costello
Google Review
I feel compelled to write this review for Pam Dostilio. Buying or selling a home is one of the most important decisions of your life. It is important to have an agent that not only is extremely knowledgeable in the field, but one that you trust fully. This would be Pam.
Pam will put in the time and effort needed. She goes above and beyond your expectations. She treats each and every client as if she they were a member of her family. She truly will work for you and have only your best interest in mind. In today's world, she is not the norm but the exception.
She will exceed your expectations and you will be glad you chose her as your agent to represent you. It will be one of the best decisions you will make.
3/26/22Jose Taveras
Google Review
Excellent Customer Service!
3/25/22Sue Galich
Google Review
Pam is professional and trustworthy. She always puts her clientās needs first. I highly recommend her for your real estate needs!
3/25/22Sophia Lavin
Google Review
Pam is a conscientious realtor with integrity and genuine caring for all her clients. She gives her people her all. You can expect she will work hard to help her clients follow the path to their dream home. I highly recommend her you will be happy you chose Pam.
3/8/22Melissa Santiago
Google Review
Pamela was WONDERFUL! She was always available, answered all our questions. We sold our home pretty quick, thanks to Pamela. She is hands on and has great vision. Sweetest/toughest person. Sheās the best, you wonāt be disappointed. Thank you!! ā¤ļø
3/4/22Kathy Schmitt
Google Review
Pamela was a true professional to work with as a peer. She was organized, thorough and was able to help her client secure the home in a multiple offer situation. The transaction was seamless, and I truly appreciated Pamelaās professionalism, and she was a pleasure to work with.
1/29/22Lindsey Finazzo
Google Review
Pam is wonderful to work with! Knows her clientele, professional, and is a joy to work with. She held our hand through selling our first home and knew all the right answers in order to sell quick. Just a joy!
1/25/22Hal Moses
Google Review
I cannot say enough about Pam and the professionalism and service she provides. In a perfect world when you are buying or selling a house youād like to have a close family member that is also a realtor so they can walk you through the process and make sure you have a good experience and are treated fairly. We were lucky enough to find Pam during our searching process and I can honestly say that I feel like I have a family member taking care of me now. She has handled our first of a few purchases we hope to make in the area brilliantly and I canāt imagine dealing with anybody else. Her professionalism and overall demeanor are unmatched and she truly cares about her clients and what is best for them.
12/27/21Angel Soto
Google Review
Even though my wife and I have decided to pull out of the house hunting market due to its volatile state and over exaggerated offerings, I felt compelled to write this review and to let you know what a pleasure it was to work with Ms. Pamela Dostilio. Pamela was very professional, personable and informative. For instance, I informed Pamela about 9am that we were going to an open house that same day at 1pm. Within 1 hour she called us back to let us know that we could have a private viewing 30 minutes to the open houses and that she would meet us there. How awesome is that!!! If youāve been to an open house ,you know what I mean. As we walked out of the private viewing their were at least 20 people waiting to go in. We did make an offer, which was 20000 over asking , we werenāt the highest bid. Even though my wife and I have decided to head in a different direction, itās nice to know that if we decided to hunt again Pamela would be our go to.
Sincerely yours,
Angel Valentine
12/15/21Rick Andrews
Google Review
We were fortunate that we had Pamela as our realtor. She dealt with a complicated situation in listing and selling my mother's house. The house had a lifetime of memories and belongings which we had to sort through.
Pamela got involved, helping the family work with this and prepare the house for sale in a timely manner. She also worked through the change of contract status mid-sale in a seamless fashion.
12/10/21susan smith
Google Review
Amazing! Thanks to Pam Dostilio. I needed to sell my house quickly, and Pam got this done. Pam coached me through the process of selling my home; she suggested some improvements, which were easy and fairly inexpensive, to better the look of my property. She handled everything from photos to open house, as if she were selling her own home.
Pamās knowledge of the current real estate market is exemplary. She advertised my property beautifully and advised me on pricing. She kept me informed every step of the way.
My house was under contract in 10 days. Pam really knows her stuff, and I would not hesitate to recommend her as a realtor. It was my great pleasure to work with her.
10/12/21Frank Bertuca, Jr
Google Review
Pam was great in helping my wife and I sell my house. The marketing material she put together was excellent, and really highlighted the house. She went beyond expectation helping get us through the entire process! Her professionalism and attention to detail made the whole thing very smooth.
8/23/21Justin Angelovic
Google Review
Reliable professional and responsive. Pam got the job done and followed through with all closing headaches I would definitely recommend again.
8/20/21Erica Hernandez
Google Review
She is an excellent real estate broker.
7/26/21Ron Imbrogno
Google Review
Pam was a pleasure to work with regarding my home purchase! Professional, Responsive and very knowledgeable. I recommend her to work with you for your home purchase!
3/27/21John Perrotto
Google Review
Pam Dostilio is quite an impressive realtor!Ā My sister and I had to quickly sell our elderly parents' condo. Since we both live out of state, several hundred miles away and with very busy lives, this made things that much more difficult. Pam helped us with EVERYTHING, from a thorough market analysis, to finding repair people, junk removers, house cleaners, movers and a great local closing attorney.Ā We found Pam to be incredibly personable, patient, enthusiastic about her job and extremely conscientious.Ā Calls, texts and emails were responded to immediately.Ā If she didnāt have the answer to a question, and we had many, she would quickly find an answer and reply promptly. Since we both live several hours away, Pam was always ready and available to find, coordinate and personally meet any inspectors and repairman at the condo.Ā She did a beautiful job marketing the condo and quickly setting up a successful open house. To our delight, the condo sold within just a few days of its listing. Ā Up through the closing date, she kept is in the loop with every important detail of the closing process.Ā She communicated very well with our Attorney, the buyerās Attorney and the Condo Association.Ā We were highly impressed with Pam and we cannot recommend her enough.
2/26/21Emily Sullivan
Google Review
Pam was a great realtor for my husband and I! We had a roller coaster ride with house hunting and she stuck by our side the whole way! She was there to guide us and took our needs and wants as her top priority in finding our forever home. Even after we made our purchase we have kept in contact with her and plan to do so in the future.
2/25/21ELENA WESTHAVER
Google Review
I would highly recommend Pam for anyone looking to purchase or sell a home. She is highly qualified, professional, and really cares for her clients. If you are looking for someone with heart who really cares for people and to help you make the right purchase for themselves or their family, Pam is the best!! She is honest and trusted by her previous clients as well!
1/26/21Kristina Cronk
Google Review
If I could give Pam 10 stars on responsiveness I would. Throughout my home buying process Pam was absolutely incredible. Pam was so thoughtful from the very beginning. This is the first time I worked with her and she treated me like I've worked with her for years and always made recommendations in my best interest.
11/6/20Jonatan Morales
Google Review
3/26/20Christy nieves
Google Review
Pam is outstanding! My husband and I met Pam on a random cold call off of a property sign. She was so great, she met up with us within 30 minutes and gave us a full run through of the home, including comps. Over a span of a couple days, Pam showed us many homes and provided us constant feedback about the market as well as comps in the area. We definitely would recommend Pam as an agent to any person looking for a friendly, kind and knowledgeable real estate agent!
9/11/19Michael J. Licamele
Google Review
Pamela is an absolute please to work with and has a well rounded set of skills that best fit your needs as a home buyer, renter, and overall real estate investor. If you want someone who is looking out for you to have the smoothest possible experience finding whatās right for you then I would highly recommend contacting Pamela.
8/8/19Cathy DeVack
Google Review
If your looking for someone who will stand by you every step of the way, caring and compassionate , look no further.
I have known Pamela for many years, and when I was starting to look for a house in a different state , she took time out of her busy day, and found a wonderful realtor for us where I live.
She will always put you first. She will listen to your needs and put 100% of her time into making sure you have found your dream home.
Getting ready to take the next step in your life, Look no further and give Pam a call.

